In late 2012, during a phone conversation with Mom, I noticed that she
asked me a question that I had already answered about 20 minutes
earlier. Later, when she asked me a third time, I just assumed she was
very concerned about the issue (which I can't remember now). During my
next phone call, there was another question that she repeated about
every 20 minutes or so. By the next phone call I was wondering if she
would do it again; she did. I immediately called my brother and he told
me she had been diagnosed with dementia a year earlier and was on
medication to slow down the progress. During my next visit home I went
to a doctor's appointment with Mom, talked to my brother and father, and
spent a lot of time observing her. To make a long story short, yes, she
had dementia and it was apparent she and Dad would need help in a
couple of years.
Fast forward. An administrator suggested I submit paperwork under the
Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA) in order to have more flexibility to go
back and help Mom and Dad more frequently and to also use leave without
pay to do so. My request was approved and the trips began. On my return
friends and co-workers asked about how things went on the trips and thus
started a series of e-mails that reminded me of the "What I Did on My
Summer Vacation" assignments at the start of the new school year when I
was first learning how to write. One thing lead to another and here we
are!
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